10/17/11

Limbo (9/23/11)

Sometimes I really feel like I am stuck in a state of "Limbo."  I try to convince myself that you are real and you are worth it, and sometimes I feel as if that is the truth, but there's still a significant amount of time that I feel as if that may not be true.  I think I make a decent attempt at serving you and pursuing you, but I know I could "do better."  But I hate that thought.  I feel like that thought only re-opens a wound I've carried for most of my "Christian walk."  I need some sort of completely radical change of my understanding of God, Christianity, faith, what a personal relationship is, etc., because if I don't, I don't think I'll make it.  I have been relying on habit or my own strength for a lot of this.  I can't do that.  I have to somehow rely on Him.  What does that even mean?!

God, I am not consistent with you.  I am not dedicated.  I SUCK at this.  It kills me that I suck at this.  I bury my head in the ground.  I do this to myself.  Is this as difficult as I make it?  Why so?  And if it's not like this, how is it?  I DON'T UNDERSTAND.  And yet, I know I am not supposed to.  Oh, the paradox of faith...of God.  Who do I cry out to for help?  Let the stone-faced walk continue until I grow a pair.

Continued Doubts (Sometime late Aug 2011)

I still have doubts.  I don't know if I will ever get rid of them.  I am constrained by my desire to be an "intellectual."  I want to have control - that's what it really comes down to.  I don't believe you, God, and a significant part of me doesn't want to believe you, because then I will have to give up things I don't want to give up.  Why are you worth it?


I feel the pressure of marriage.  Am I ready?
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How can my prayer life improve?
How can I be more sincere and intentional in my relationship with God?


Less of: "how can I improve?", and more of "how can YOU improve me, God?" or "how can I allow you to improve me?"


Why am I so judgmental? How can you change me God?


How can I be more intentional and disciplined with my relationship with Courtney?
Romantic, creative, spontaneous
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What have I been doing to impress God?
How have I been caught up in finding ways to "earn" His love?